So I thought I’d make my first post something light-hearted and simple, something that wasn’t overly complex or too thought/discussion-provoking; you know, like the purpose of life… or something.

Ok, so just maybe it is a little too deep for my return to “da interweb,”  but it has been a constant thought in my mind over the last several years, and something I am sure is in the minds of almost every human being. It’s not a topic that can be easily approached and there is certainly no definitive answer either. Frankly, I don’t think even a single question, or even a hundred questions, could adequately address the topics or thoughts that come to mind when one thinks of the “purpose of life.”

So I’ll start with a stupid analogy.

If you knew, if you absolutely knew with 100% certainty that any brand-new car you just bought was going to be totalled in less than ten years, how much would you be willing to spend on that vehicle? How much time would you spend “pimping your ride?” So I know that term is “old school,” but seriously, how much time and money would you invest into it? Would you buy a top-of-the-line sound system, some mounted TVs, leather interior, butt warmers, and the works? Could you see yourself spending $100K on a ride that you know will be absolutely worthless in ten years, and maybe worthless tomorrow? And to you smart a’s who say “yeah, but I’d have it insured,” for this hypothetical, there is no insurance. Whatever you invest into that car will be gone. You may enjoy it for a time, but you don’t know how long that time will be… you only know that it will end.

Another absurd hypothetical:

How much money would you be willing to put into the stock market if you knew, you knew with an absolute certainty, that the stock market would crash and anything and everything you put into it would be worthless when that happens. You don’t necessarily know when it will happen, but you know that at some point during your lifetime it will happen and everything that is in market will be lost; whoever has money in the market at that time, will lose it all. How much would you be willing to venture?

To bring these absurd hypotheticals to a point: what is the one thing about your life that is 100% certain. What is the one thing, you know will happen to you, your family, and everyone you know. What is the one guarantee that we have in this life?

Death.

Yes, I know it’s morbid, but it’s true. It is the one certain event that will occur. You may hope you’ll strike it rich. You may hope to win the lottery. You may want to live in a good neighborhood and take month-long vacations from work. You know you will die. You don’t know when, you don’t know where or how, but you know it will happen. This is the one guarantee we all have in this life.

So that begs the next question: what should you invest in?

Think about it.

Seriously. Take a moment, pause, stop reading, and think about it. What would be a wise investment given the fact that you will die, given the fact that this life is temporary.

There’s not an easy answer, to say the least. You need food, shelter, clothing, and yes, you need money. If you lack any of these, then your lifespan here probably won’t last too long, and your enjoyment would be similarly non-existant. Thus, there has to be some investment there.

However, I think the easiest way to look at this question would be to address it from the point of view as if you were already dead, but you were still in existence. Whether you believe in an afterlife or not, for purposes of this hypoethical, I want you to imagine yourself looking back on your life. Would you look back and say, “wow, I am sure glad I bought that Mercedes, that was a sweet ride.” Would you say, “man, I am glad I invested 60 hours of every week at work?” Would you look back and be glad that you dismissed many of your old friends and mixed with the social circles so you could surround yourself with “the elite?”

I doubt it.

The things you purchase will rust, break down, and be tossed away. The “elite” that you surrounded yourself will forget you when you’re gone; their attention was as much of an investment as yours.

So what is the one thing you can do, the one thing you can share, the one thing you can invest in so that you’ll look back on your life and will feel pleased with the outcome?

Love.

Yeah, you probably saw that coming. And yes, it sounds cheesy and cliche. However, it’s true. Now, when I say love, I don’t mean stupid, valueless, corrupted hippy “love.” I also do not mean getting up on a pulpit and demanding love while you condemn, look down on, and judge others for having values different than yours. I mean non-judgmental, pure, unadulterated acts of love, service, spending-time, caring for others, and training those around us and our children to do the same. And I don’t just mean “love” in an idealistic, theoretical form either. Showing love, compassion, caring, selflessness… charity: this is love.

This is the one thing that I have no doubt, no doubt that if it is done, if it is shown, if it is exercised, the impact will never fade away. The life that you help improve will impact lives around it. Sure you could spend that extra hundred bucks you have on a mediocre car stereo that will be gone in five years. However, spending that money to buy food for a hungry family in need or to help out a neighbor will go a lot further. The love that you show will be shared with others.

One of my favorite scriptures is James 1:27, which reads, “Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.” (NIV) In this single verse the core of religion, the core of Christianity is emphasized: loving and caring for others, while trying to avoid the stains of the world. Or put in another way using the words of our Savior, when asked to identify the greatest commandment, he replied that “Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind… And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.” We love God by loving our neighbors.

Again, love.

Love God, love righteousness, love others regardless of their circumstances and their sins. We are all sinners, we are all stupid, we are all lacking. We would hope that God would forgive us our trespasses and show compassion and love to us, let’s do the same to everyone.